Manly Characteristics
What characterizes manliness for the modern man? While many books have already been written about the subkect of manliness, few really underpin what it is to be a man and how to live as one. Firstly the dating books like to regurgitate that confidence rules but confidence is just a sign of a subconscious self assessment. Exactly what do I mean by that? Well for those who have experience with dating many beautiful women, your assessment of yourself will probably be a guy who’s great with beautiful women and as a result of this you are gonna behave as such. If on the other hand you’ve had knock back after knock back then} your self assessment is going to be that you’re useless with women and the self perpetuation of this feeling will boil under the conscious mind. If you need further explanation on this psychological manifestation of the human mind then look no further than psycho cybernetics by Maxwell Maltz or Richard Bandelers lessons on NLP but I digress.
I really believe that true levels of manliness may be exhibited through control over the few brackets of his life twinned by having an adherence to a specific group of moralistic principles. Let us examine these life brackets. I believe that life might be bracketed in the following way: health, wealth, relationships, career, education and character.
A healthy muscular body is the very essence of manliness and thus controlling each of the internal and external influences over maintaining this physique and looking at optimum health solutions must be absolutely essential in the quest for manliness. Disease and illness do not get women flocking now does it?
Having your finances in order, to do things you need and wish to do in everyday life as well as being able to take care of your friends and relatives surely would present you like a manly man.
Finding yourself in a loving and mutually beneficial relationship is unquestionably an indication of manliness as well as having good relations with your loved ones and a whole host of friends who rely on you together with will give you support in your life again is surely a healthy exhibit of manliness.
A man works hard for those things he believes in and is also shown in his career. It’s understandable that a man of the world is but one whom engages in continuous education not simply for filling out his wallet for the skills he learns but because he has appreciation of the world and everything in it.
Finally a man continually strives to support moral virtue and aims to endeavour in every portion of his life being a pillar of morality, in keeping with his cause at ever junction of his life working to make the entire world a greater place on account of his existence. Consider if everybody was truly a man, what a truly wonderful world this might be.
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